-In December 2008, I asked a girl to our school prom. She said she'd think about it. A few days later, another boy asked her and gave her concert tickets, so she obviously said yes to him!
-Come early January 2009, they had argued, and she no longer wanted to go with him.
-Very early in March, she asked me and said ';I'm really sorry about what happened before, will you take me to the prom';. This really took me by surprise, and I obviously said yes to her.
-One of ';conditions'; of the date, is that its kept quiet until the prom night...Does this mean she's embarrassed of taking me, from my perspective it seems that way.
-She's a very proud girl, and sometimes self centered...I have the impression the only reason she wants me to go with her is so that she's seen with somebody on the night, and for her own benefit!?
What should I do? Dump her or keep her?!
Thanks!Prom Date Problems?! Advice Please!?
Hello....awww, the trouble of High School. I remember it well. Don't think too much about what's right and wrong here. You're young, this will be a fun time for you and try to keep it 'light.' Do you think you're going to have fun with her? If you are, then I say go with her. If you think she's going to be more trouble/drama than fun, I say find someone else to go with you. Prom is about having fun and the memories will stay with you for a lifetime so just take it for what it is. Have lots of fun and let us know what you decide to do!!Prom Date Problems?! Advice Please!?
I am the ';self centered, shallow'; girl refered to in the above question and id like to just say that there are in fact two sides to every story , what has been written above isnt a fair portrayal of the situation or of me what so ever, i find it very offencive indeed. his loss at the end of the day.
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right yeah, im sorry, but i know this girl you are on about very much, and shes is totaly the opposite to who you have described. you havent even asked her what her reasons where, so im sorry hunni, you should get your facts straight before you start posting faulse stories on the internet.
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This girl sounds way shallow. Dump her and find someone nicer! She wants to keep it quiet so if someone better asks her she can ditch you without anyone else knowing, so *she* won't seem like a jerk.
She's clearly using you as a backup incase she can't get another more popular person. She doesn't want the word to get out that she's taken.
Screw her man, get somebody else who would be proud to go with you.
Ask her why she wants to keep it quiet. It could be because she might change her mind again and drop you and go with him to prom.
well find out her story first but i would dump her. she seems like she using you because she knows that ur open for the prom so.... idk ur call
stay with her
if you like her at least youl be going out with her
be proud tell your frends
dump her and find someone else!!
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