Sunday, August 22, 2010

Relationship problems.Advice please?

Earlier in the day,my boyfriend texted me yesterday and he said that a girl that is close to his grandma said that I cheated on him,he said she thinks she is hating.


Later on on the middle of the night last night he called me because he said something was bothering him.What happened was that the same girl and him were in the room,and they were getting ready for a party earlier that day, she asked if he can put lotion on her.He admitted,it was just her legs.So then he leaves,and then this girl strips naked and goes in the room and kisses him.








I really don't know what to say. He said it was bothering him.But I really don't know.And he said he was calling me today to talk more about this,Because i was upset.Relationship problems.Advice please?
I don't know the guy, but you can tell if someone is really upset or not. He may be able to put on an Emmy performance, but deep down you'll know if he is really bothered by the problem. My advice to you is not to be the girlfriend from movies...as in....go nuts and blame him BEFORE he tells his whole side of the story. If it's a lie, and what he says in untruthful, then you can go crazy. However, I feel like this guy was put in a bad situation and I've been there before. Sometimes you have no way out of these traps. Good luck.Relationship problems.Advice please?
I don't know if I would believe this.I mean,it sounds a little fishy that she would lie,then put lotion on? Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him in the past?It sounds like he may have cheated.You need to talk to him about this.His concious wouldn't be bothering him this much if he hadn't done something.Communication is important in a relationship.Talk to him and get to the bottom of this! From the sounds of this,i don't think you are getting the complete truth.
I think you should leave him because he basically already cheated on you because he was in that room with the naked chick and come on now you know he probably did more then kissing... Don't let him treat you like a door mat and walk away from this relationship

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