Boy/parent problems? Advice?

Okay, I really like this guy and he asked me out, but my parents were like pretty clear before, ';No dating until you're 18.'; ';It's pointless to date before university.'; I'm 14, what should I do?





I told him ';Maybe,'; I really want to say yes, but then my parents probably will get mad at me, or something. -_-





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14 is a little young to be going on solo dates. If you get to hand out with your guy friends that your parents don't know, then hang out with this guy the same way. Tell him the truth about your parents, that they don't want you dating yet.





Then have a serious talk with your parents about boundaries and letting you have SOME opportunities. Ask for clear rules like perhaps, when you are 16, you can hang out with groups at public places, that may include boys, etc etc - SOME negotiation on their behalf. But do it calmly. Don't get that whiney voice deal that some girls do - it will only irritate them and make you seem less mature. If you can impress them with your maturity, then they might be more willing to let you do things you want.
It's hard to say seeing as i don't know how strict your parents are, but im guessing quite strict!


Maybe you could play down the boyfriend part to them and just kinda talk about it to your parents as if this guy is just a mate.


If you don't want to do that and they really won't let you go out with him you could just see him and say you are with your girl mates.. they won't find out for ages!
Well lets see I'm 13 and my mom doesn't care if I date but my dad is a freak about it.When he drops me and my friends off at the mall he always says no kissing and no boys, well....I have a boyfriend and I meet him at the mall... So I think you should say yes to this ';guy'; I mean if you get in trouble it's not like your parents are going to disown you...
You're way too young to go out alone with a boy. But talk to your parents and ask them if you can go on double dates with this boy and some of your friends. Many parents allow their children to do this, and then you can tell the guy yes.
Lie, it's what I do.
my parets said that to i did anyway


they found out and they dident say anything bout it well i told em






tell they guy about ur parents and maybe u two can still be ';going out'; but without going places all the time i dont know. or maybe go out with a bunch off friends and invite him to come. that way u can tell ur parents ur with friends or be out with friends and tell him to meet u there. there are alot of things u can do 2 get around this





i agree with the person who said go on a double date my dad is very strict about boys but he let me go on this kind of a date





but parents should be worried about this thats wat parents do if they dident have rules for u that would meam they dident care about u and dont wana deal with u