Yes I know that time-- my sis just finished sixth grade- and WHAT AN ATTITUDE! She used to be so cute... I know you won't like this answer, but she is just trying to grow up and be independent like you and wants to be more than your little sister. You will just have to give her time, and eventually she will share more mature things with you, instead of games and crayons. The best way to get her comfortable around you is to let her come to you and give her space. I know that you two will be tight again, but I don't have an overnight solution.Sister relationship problems---advice please!!!!!!!?
Talk to your sister once and for all to clear up things. Since your are her older sister ask her what's her problem or main reason for reacting to you that way. Maybe she might need your help. It can be also she starting to change her attitude as she starts her teens now. Sometimes when kids start their teens they are starting to change with their lifestyles and along with the environment that she's with. Also as she enter her teens she doesn't like to be treated like a baby anymore even she's the youngest in your family. The best thing is you talk with her and know what she really feels, what's her likes and likes so that you can maintain the relationship that you had as sisters.
Are you 13? because my sister is 2 years younger and going into 6th grade. we're the same age. OK, now that we have established that, my sister fights with me a lot to. she'll get over it. selfish little brat? mine too. just make some good comebacks if she wants to fight. sometimes i fell like i want to rip her hair out, but i know i can't. tell you mom or dad about it w/out her there so she can't denie it. trust me, she'll mature.
good luck! %26lt;3 katie
sit down with her ask her how things are going.maybe she is having trouble with aguy or with friends and doesnt wanna show it.....but maybe u can take her out one day..like to the park.or movies.and just be aloneandhave qality time.she may just thing since ur older ur probably hung uponur friends and stuff!
plan something that you think she will like to do, and invite her to go with you, and use that time together to have fun and catch up, time after time that u try to get closer to her, she will soon come around, because at the end everyone goes back to family.
It has to do with growing up and getting to know who you are and what you want. She is in her awkward stage of life right now. Just be there for her ask her how it is going at school. Try to find out if she is having a problem at school that maybe you can help her with. You are her big sister snoop if you have too. She seems to of done a complete turn around. Try and find our why. You guys will be close again. Me and my sister were like that. We are now very close and have been for a very long time. Don't give up on your sis, she will always be your sis. Others come and go.
She is just going through a phase right now or it could be she's going to be starting her menstrual cycle soon......I'm thinking her hormones are probably out of wack right now.
shes probably just acting like that becasue she thinks she should. since shes going into sixth grade, she must be like 11 or 12? so she probably wants to try and mature and thinks she has to act like that. just give her some space and then talk to her or ask her againn
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