Guy Problems? Advice please!?

Ok so I have a best friend, and he tells me everything. But the problem is that, I like him! I have been friends with him F O R E V E R ! And every time I see him, I just want to go up to him and give him a hug! He is perfect ok! He's sweet, cute, lovable! And he even came over today! (well he's my neighbor ha ha) I'm convinced he's the guy I'm never going to get over! I can tell him everything, and he can tell me everything. I tell him about my family, give him advice, and he told me that I was his best friend. And the truth is that I totally L O V E him, as you can probably tell! And it totally hurts me to see my other friend going out with him, hugging, talking, holding hands, and especially kissing!! But I need some help, really lol! I love him, but i LOVE being friends, and I can't make up my mind.Guy Problems? Advice please!?
Your wasting love time ..its burning a hole in ur spirit..the next time u see him just walk up to him dont say anything grab him by the neck and give him a kiss with a little bit of tongue and walk away...Ill take naming ur first child after me as payment for my help..Guy Problems? Advice please!?
If you do pursue the relationship, keep in mind that it will not be easy to get back to the friendship mode. If it's even possible.





Just don't EVER get involved with him, only to say ';let's just be friends like before';. That tends to destroy most guys in these situations.
God, deja vu...





Anyway, I'd just tell him. Tell him you like him, that you've liked him for a long time, and just see what he says. Don't make it awkward by trying to kiss him or anything like that, and DEFINITELY leave out the 'hurts you to see him with another girl' thing, that'll be a big turn off for him, and might lead him to think you'd be too needy in a relationship. Also, stress to him that you do NOT want him to leave his girlfriend for you, tell him you like him and that you'll wait for him. I promise you that as soon as he realizes that you're the one for him, he'll come crawling to you.
Well, I've been in your exact same position. I ended up seeing my best guy friend, and it was not a good idea. Things changed and never ever ever got back to how they were in the beginning. I think when we see how great of a friend the guy is , we think a relationship will be a sure thing..but, that is not often the case. Dating changes a lot of things. It might work out though! You will never ever know if you try. But, if you never want to loose him you might want to stick with the friendship...best of luck!!

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