Boy problems. advice?

so i reallly like this guy,


but he has this girlfriend...ish. person


im kinda friends with her so im not gonna go try and ';steal'; him away,


but from what i hear, she moves on realllly quickly, so i figure ill wait until that happens, then go for it.





in the mean time, seeing as i probably weigh 20-30 pounds more than she does, im gonna work out more, get in better shape, and buy new clothes.





here is the problem.


i worry that when she moves on, i wont know what to do


[ive never had a boyfriend]


or ill be too scared to go after him, and someone will ask him out before i do.





any advice?Boy problems. advice?
I think that while you are waiting to see if this girl breaks up with this boy, become friends with him. Get to know him better and it will be easier to ask him out. And - I know you didn't ask this, but I will say it anyways - a good way to lose weight is to walk places. Since gas is high, and you don't want to waste money - if you drive or you parents drive doesn't matter. I have been doing that and I have just started doing that since 1 week and I have all ready lost 8 pounds!!! Yeah Me!!!!Boy problems. advice?
ok i am a guy but i think you should like flirt with him showing him that you are interested what i hate is a girl asking a guy out its just wrong the guys should were the pants in any relationship but show him your interested make him ask you out but dont act like a **** then he wont even give a second look hoped this helpped probably not =(
learn what you can from your friend... then you can ask him to a movie after they crash and burn... he might use you to make her jealous or something so be cautious... for now try and talk to him so the friendship develops now... just make sure your friend is out of the picture... maybe ask her for his number... he might be flattered.
well you shouldn't be scared. you never know if he feels the same way. you should try talking to him, telling him how you feel. and talk to your friend too. you'll be surprised at how understanding people can be. i hope everything works out (:
i think if she move on you just go for it there nothing to worry about if you shy ask somebody to ask him out for you


hope this help good luck
Dont be scared.... just go for it!!!! If he really likes you.. He wont care about your size..
Do it, No is the worst that could happen
maybe flirt with him. see what happens.


just be friendly. maybe he likes you. if not oh well.