Boyfriend problems, advice and help needed..?

So once again, i just posted a similar question to the same situation. My boyfriend and I just broke up this past weekend. He's in college, I'm still in high school.





Saturday morning he told me about ';sleeping with a girl'; and then he told me that we needed a break. He apologized and everything.





Then I messaged this girl on facebook, and immediately my ex called and said ';i never said we did anything, you just assumed';





So, she messaged me back and said she was extremely sorry for making me think that my ex hooked up with her, she said if i had questions I could ask, and she reassured me that they're just friends..





Anyways, he told me he wants to be single, he told me it's too hard without me there with him.





And i honestly cannot see myself with anyone else, and he still insists on texting me, like he just did now. He's actually over at her house right now.Boyfriend problems, advice and help needed..?
oh :(





i know its hard but you need to distance yourself from this guy.. you need to not answer his calls and try and move on. even if in your heart you arent ready to move on you need to pretend you are.. he's only going to keep stringing you along because he may not be ready to make a commitment but by you sitting there and waiting for him he knows he can take you along for a ride, whether he cares for you or not.


anyway have you heard the saying dont know what you got till its gone?


he cant miss you unless you go away =]


and dont come back the first time he begs





you're a strong girl, show it!








xBoyfriend problems, advice and help needed..?
Let go of him. He sounds like he's trying to distance himself but he's being selfish at the same time, still wanting you to be at his beck and call. And you always will be if you let it happen that way. He can have his cake and eat it too. He can sleep around and still have you for emotional stability. Not good. Find a new guy sweetie.
Ill be honest, I didnt read your whole blog. There is no point. If he just wants to be ';friends'; then that means ditch his ***! There is no reason for you to be worried about someone who obviously doesnt care about you. There are plenty of guys out there so theres absolutely no reason for you to be hooked on this dill hole...What are you waiting for girl ..
Why did you go after the girl in the first place? I would just give him some room.
Its sounds like he just needs time to figure things out....i was in the same situation about a 1 1/2 years ago....don't try to pressure him by talking about the two of you....just give him time.....i kept talking about the two of us getting back together like in every phone call because i missed him and wanted to be with him so bad...not knowing that it was only pushing him away even more....after about 3months of begging i went on ahead and moved on started talking to other guys you know....when he found out it made him realize what he was missing and what he lost....about a month later he proposed to me....so just give it time
You might just have to learn to get over him. I know it seems now like you won't ever be able to get over it, but over time you will. The best thing you can do is try to move on with your life.
looks like something is up, he should stop going over to the other girls house all the time, as hard as it may sound i reckon you should dump him and if he really cares about you and your feeling he will come crawling back faster then a plane at the speed of light. or you could always do what you did to him, start hanging out with a different guy and see what he says about it.

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