Guy Problems! Advice? Experience?

Ok so here's the story;


I met this guy about five years ago. He and my twin brother became friends and they did everything together, therefore I saw him everyday without fail! After about three weeks of knowing him i realised I had feelings for him. I tried to hide my feelings and I even tried to focus my attention on other things so that I wouldn't let on that I had feelings for him. Him and my brother stayed good friends for three years. After hiding my feelings about him for three years I couldn't take it anymore and I felt insanely curious about how he felt about me. I overheard a conversation between himself and my brother where my brother asked him if he would ever date me. After several minutes of silence he came back with the answer of no. He said that he didn't want to risk damaging the friendship that they shared but couldn't help the way he felt. Three weeks later both myself and my brother were invited to sleep at the guys house. I accepted in a flash and I was so pleased that I could finally get some time alone with him. The night came and my brother was getting tired. We decided to watch a movie and then settle down for the night. Halfway through the movie my brother was asleep, we watched the end and then settle down. This guy and myself were sharing a sofa and I plucked up the courage to ask him what he three weeks earlier. He said that he couldn't help the way he felt about me bt that it was obvious I felt the same way. We stayed awake until half four in the morning but I eventually fell asleep in his arms. I woke up early to make it look like I had spent the night by myself we both knew that revealing a word of what had happened to my brother would cause tension and damage the friendships that were shared. This year the guy got together with an ex best friend of mine. He knew how I felt about him and he didn't think to tell me that he was with someone. I didn't want to still be in love with him but I couldn't help the way I felt and I told him that I still loved him. It was hard but I wanted him to know.


I just wanted to know from a guy's point of view, what he might be feeling and if anyone has been in a similar situation as me.


Thanks in advance :) xGuy Problems! Advice? Experience?
He made it clear that he felt strongly for you but didn't want to ruin your brothers and his friendship. Even though he felt strongly for you he didn't want to risk it. And i guess he didn't tell you because you guys aren't really ';together'; and didn't feel like it was his priority to tell you.

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