We can't seem to have the same laugh anymore...and I've noticed when we're sitting with our friends he never seems to look at me and faces the other way a lot of the time with his elbow to separate us, I know it sounds really weird, and never bothers to say goodbye on msn anymore...
and I'm really starting to dislike him........what do you think I should do??? any advice would be amazing thank you xxFriendship problems....advice needed!!?
He obviously is not really over whatever it is you disagreed about earlier. You may think you made up and moved on, but he might be still holding a grudge. Be up front and ask him what his problem is. If he's a REAL friend, he'll be honest and if he has a problem with you, he'll tell you. Be clear in the way you ask. Don't ask so he can give you a yes or no answer, you want a proper answer with reason. Here are some examples of questions you could ask.
'; What have I done to make you treat me like this ';
'; Are you OK, is there something bothering you ';
'; I've noticed you ignoring me lately, why are you doing that ';
'; You seem angry with me, why ';
Just be open and up front about it. Don't be confrontational when you ask, do it in a friendly way. Hopefully you will be able to get to the bottom of what is going on.
good luck. :-)Friendship problems....advice needed!!?
Would you be bothered if you lost him as a friend totally? If no - just ignore him. If yes - then you need to talk to him to find out what his problem is.
ignore him girl, and he should be talking to you in no time it worked for me
see ya!
I think he likes you. I am going to tell you why. Remember when a boy liked you in school he would always hurt you just to get your attention. And know feels bad because he was not being up front with his feeling. Or maybe it's time to cut him off for good. I take that back dont cut him off but lets puts some space between yall. It looks like that is what going on here anyways seems like yall are growing apart. and if any of the reason that I have listed above is the cast dont worry it happens to all of us.
Same here. hard isn't? anyways well iwould ask if your liek friends not BEST firends. but best friendsi would think i feels odd. it feels like your growing appart. so i would.......may be just ask to hang out like the old times when you guys uesed to hang out and have good menoryies rt
hope it help or gives u ideas! peacce
Sounds like he's still not over the fall out...either that or he really likes you and doesn't know how to tell you i.e avoiding you seems a better option than dealing with his issues.
confront him and tell him things are weird and u thought you resolved it and figure it out more formally.
Well, we sorta need to know what you ';fell out over'; if were going to help you.
give him the flick and move on
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