Roomie problems.. advice please?

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my sister and i share an apartment, i'm 20 years old. she recently asked her best friend to move in. i said it was okay because her bff was really fun. but now things have changed. her best friend is ALWAYS depressed and bringing everyone's mood down. she is always throwing pity parties or sitting in the room crying. she does not know how to do anything survival wise (i.e. cooking). so i told her she needed to get a job and she said she would just stop eating. WTF? that is dumb, it's like she wants everybody to feel sorry for her. it is to the point where i am constantly gone to avoid her. she is sooooo annoying. my sister asked her to stay and now she has nowhere else to go. i want her out. she doesn't have a job, she sleeps on my couch until 1 o'clock, she is always home, i need some alone time, she always has an attitude and when you say something about it she starts crying. WTF? i feel like she is just using us. what do i do? my sister said could stay until next year. Roomie problems.. advice please?
You need to talk to your sister about her leaving.





Its your home too and everybody that lives there needs it to be comfortable for them.





I know people like this girl that you mentioned and it gets really hard to feel so bad for somebody like that. Makes you want to scream at her ';Suck it up! Life happens to everybody. Move on already!';





Some of lifes best lessons are those that are the hardest learned and tough love isnt just for parents to give....Roomie problems.. advice please?
Move out! Your sis obviously forgot the contract BETWEEN YOU 2...draw the line..it's the other girl or me and stick to it. Period. This other person doesn't give a damn about either of you, just a free ride. You gonna let this loser dictate your life and sister's life?
Tell her she has 2 weeks to get a job. If she doesn't, she has to leave. If you don't do something now, you won't do it later.
Tell your sister she has to get out now...and then you two sit down and talk to the girl. Tell her if she does not have a job by the end of next week...shes gone.
Talk to your sister and come to an agreement with her first. If you tell the girl one thing and your sister tells her another, then you are going to end up with a huge mess.





But the girl needs to get a job or do things around the house. One or the other. Not just for your sake but for hers as well. She needs to learn to be dependant. The ball's in your court since you're the owner of the place.





It could be that when she gets something to keep her busy (job) then her depression will decrease.





Good luck! GOD bless!!!
hmm...that girl needs a councilor!!!


dont get affected by her crying or attitude ...just talk to her about it and tell her that she is a waste of space and money,,,


if she starts crying .ignore her.


she probably feels that if she cries and acts depressed all the time


everybody will pity her and do what she wants.!


even try talking to your sis..mayb she feels the same but cannot say it.n then if ur sis agrees with you.tell her to tlk 2 her bff and get it sorted out...!











Hope i helped


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