Brother problems?? advice?

If you saw my question earlier then you'll know that im pregnant at 15... anyway, I told my boyfriend and he's fine with it and we decided to raise the baby together, and recently we've been texting A LOT like every second about the baby and everything, like he would ask me how i was feeling, etc. QUESTION: I have a twin brother who's 15 and recently we have been fighting A LOT... i didn't tell him that he's gonna be an uncle, but Recently he's been reading my texts... ( I know because the little envelope would be open before i even read it)





QUESTION: Should I confront him or wait for him to confront me?? he wasnt supposed to know yet... I would be really pissed if he told my dad... Wasn't that incredibly nosy of him?? Is it his business if he's gonna be an uncle?? Thanks a bunch %26lt;3Brother problems?? advice?
You should tell ur brother that u were gonna tell him that same day (and then go in depth about how you didn't want to get pregnant and that u and ur bf were unprotected) then tell him that u want to tell ur dad when he is in a good mood and him not to say that cause he might say it in a bad way.





Yah........... You should tell your boyfriends parents first so then they can help explain to your dad what they can do to help and what you should do ( but its your decision the whole way ur an independent women who can make her own decisions (with some help) :D)......





It wasn't any of his business to get into ur personal stuff but whats done is done no rewinding time ( i so wish that could happen though) but you should confront him first. But when you do be calm because if ur angry u'll be sending signals to him to start getting defensive. You should also tell him that he'lll be a good uncle, and ask him if he could help you get through this ( that will make him feel important , after all u two grew up together)





After you tell him that ( if agrees to help u)ask him if he'll help u get some ideas on how to tell ur dad........................





Best of Luck to U and ur Brother


%26amp; ur dads Reaction


%26amp; the Baby





Wishing u luck in the future!Brother problems?? advice?
You should tell him, and the baby's lucky that you decided to keep it, NOt that i condone premarital sex but at least your boy friend is taking initiative and not running away. Tell your brother the truth and work out your differences, it would be better that way than if you waited for him to confront you about it.


Good luck with the baby
I think you should confront him yourself . He's probably angry that nobody told him , or he's just being the nosy typical brother .


If you leave him to confront you , he's probably going to go tell your father .


Does anyone know about your pregnancy ?





CAUTION : Even if you do confront him yourself , there's still a huge chance he may blackmail you .
What do you expect? You are 15! Tell your parents!! Having a baby is a huge deal. It's not like sharing a pizza or a pair of jeans- this is a human life. Regardless if your brother is reading your texts, you are lying to your family- if I was him, I would be mad too... Being an uncle isn't a big deal, but having a kid is. You made an adult decision to have sex and now you and your boyfriend have to grow up and act like adults- and the first step is owning up to it and telling your family.
I would sit down with the baby's dad and your family and tell them together. That way, your brother won't think he's being left out and he can't blackmail you.





Yes it was nosy of him but then again brothers are meant to be annoying brats.





Yes it is his business if he's going to be an uncle but it's still your choice as to when you tell him.





Hope this helps


Mattie xXx
even though you guys have been fighting a lot, it doesnt change the fact that he;s your brother and he loves you. i think he would like to be involved in your pregnancy and you should tell him.





good luck on your baby! im 15 too and i was having a pregnancy scare about 1 month ago, i hope everything goes great!
confront your brother ..youll be happy you did in the long run..and tell yur dad before he does so you can tell him the 100% truth