Girl problems. advice needed. thanks.?

So theres this one girl and ive ALWAYLS like her alot.


ive dated other people and stuf, but never 'liked' someone as much as i do this girl. well shes a junior, im a sophmore, and she asked me to prom the other dayy. well im going with her. We always talk, but we pretty much never decided to take it any further. Well, I told her that i was crazy in love with her. and she already knew this, she says ';Ben, i know how girls have been to you in the past, ill end up hurting you more, and i do not want to be that girl...'; that kinda stuff. I know she cares about me.





Shes really sweet, she will never hurty me, i know it.


what can i do, to persuade her to think that. if theres not a way, what can i do to make it work with us.


right now, there really arent any other girls for me.


i love this girl.


thanks folks!Girl problems. advice needed. thanks.?
Honestly sounds like a bs line if you ask me. She was trying to be nice.





But on the off chance she is not, go to the prom have fun and relax!!!Girl problems. advice needed. thanks.?
Kinda sounds like you're infatuated with her but may not actually be IN LOVE and she knows it. After all, girls mature in this area much faster than we do.





Do you tend to fall for girls pretty easily, Huggy? Maybe you should just take each opportunity to learn something new about girls and refrain from ';falling in love'; with them. Cause when you're TRULY ready for LOVE, it'll just happen naturally - especially if it's the right girl.
just ask her on a date and tell her to her face ur sweet I love you and I know theres no way u could hurt me. Maybe she just wants to really get to know you before anymore happens. If you really love her you'll wait and keep trying. Also try txting her nd just being really great friends that way she if u were to break up then she knows u guys can still stay friends.
2 words. be yourself!


good luck!
sounds like she might be Mormon might whant to ask.
well maybe part of the reason she is hesitant is because she doesnt want to ruin your friendship, she might also not really like you like that and that is her polite way of getting out of it. or she might really just be scared.. its hard to tell... but love is amazing and i am a firm believer that if you love herthe best thing to do is try to get her and if that fails then... it is better to love and lost than to never have loved at all
Well to be honest it sounds like she only half likes you. you gotta win the other half over. OK here's what you gotta do invite her out to dinner, bring her flowers (daises/lilies works the best) then ask where she wants to eat. ... if this doesn't work this girl has no soul and she's just not good enough for some one who cares that much
Awww...thats really sweet...


I think u should tell her...i know u would never hurt me...
well bud she said it best when she said she would end up hurting you sounds like to me she really just wants to be friends but also if you stick it out long enough and show her how great of guy you are she just might come around.but don't Waite to long cause you are young and have lots of life and dating to do ....remember that song by Garth Brooks unanswered prayers you might be to young but anyway i had some feeling like yours when i was you age and prayed and prayed that i could be with a certain girl OK now back to the song and what it means i look back and thank GOD for not answering that pray because if he did i would have never met my wife .you just never no whats in store for your life just try to be patient in what ever you do good luck and God bless.
though you may want to convince her otherwise... you will not change the facts.





take a good look at how she is with other guys (in the past) and determine the facts. if she is telling you upfront the truth of her INTENTIONS, then man, i would jet on this and save yourself some heartache.





measure once, cut twice


measure twice, cut once





do the math... sometimes people tell us the horrible truth and if we pay attention, we short circuit hurt. liking her isnt wrong, but letting her control you due to this liking (meaning head games of your own to win fair maiden devotion) will land you as a faithful slave to be used.





look two months down the road... even a year. be honest and play this all out before it happens... if you see the road sucking... then bail now and walk free.





pj
what ever you do, don't be a push over for her, don't put your life on hold for her. Go out and enjoy yourself and be with your friends, and if you see another girl you might like, try and date her or at least be friends with them... Either the other girl will come around, or 20 years from now she will look back at a missed opportunity with regret.
well just court her, and make her feel special and in the end shell probably fall for you
u r in love but she ain't. maybe be frineds and wait till you are recriprocated (my god how many girls have i liked who did not like me)