Relationship problems..advice?

Ive been going out with this guy since 8/11/09..He is very sweet, and I guess hes pretty committed to the relationship.. We rarely see each other..mostly because of my overly strict, traditional, unreasonable parents...and they ave no idea im dating anyone, mostly because id end up 6 feet under if I told them. Anyways the whole time we have been together we only saw each other 3 times..I told him Im probally the most difficult girlfriend he has ever had...which I wouldn't doubt it either..


He tells me things like..';im always thinking about you';


';You're beautiful';


';I like you way too much to let you go';


But then again..he has a Rep of being a flirt..and Im pretty aware of it.


I also think its pretty pointless of us to stay together anymore since hes going to Louisiana for college this year after he graduates..


Im pretty torn..I do like him..and im aware that he likes me..but once again..we barely see each other..and hes going to leave me soon..


Do you think I should end the relationship..?..any advice on how I should talk to him about this?...


Thank you in advance.. :(Relationship problems..advice?
yes i think u should end it or...


Be like ';can i talk 2 u for a minute';


then be like u know i like u right?'; and u like me right';


will i was thinking maybe this relaship could not last...';


I mean we barely see each other and ur going away but can we still be friends'; trust im in a similer hole as u except we see each other but i dont like him like that i was hopin thatill begin to like him as we date but it never happed so im breaking up with him as soon as i can talk to him alone...Relationship problems..advice?
Yes, I would think it best if you would end the relationship because it does not seem as though it will go anywhere. Guys like this wont wait around for someone to be ';granted'; permission to go out.





Sorry if that sounds too frank.
You've been together for a total of 15 days and you're already asking this question? I think it's time to end it.
End the relationship. Why?





1) Your parents don't want you to date. Parents do know what they're talking about most of the time. You still live in their house so you live with their rules.





2) You've only been seeing this guy for 2 weeks tops. If you're going to break it off it's better sooner than later. You can't be ';committed to a relationship'; in that amount of time.





3) How can you have a relationship with someone you've only seen 3 times? You can't really spend time together without seeing each other now can you?





4) If he's going away, what's the point in staying in a relationship with him? You're both better off breaking up before you get too involved, making leaving much harder for him.





5) If he's a flirt, than he's probably not the best choice for a boyfriend anyway. Find someone you can trust.