I've been with a Libra for a little over a year and a half. I have always been insecure and can be impatient as well as detached when I'm upset. I'm a Pisces. This Libra in particular has been my very first true love, I love him still to this day although he broke up with me a week ago. It was such a shock to me because although I had always questioned the stability/life line of our relationship he had always been the one to say ';I won't let it happen, I believe in us. This is true. We will always work it out.'; He had always been the jealous one, the caring one, he would go out of his way for me even if it meant driving for miles to get to me. Then out of the blue, he says ';we need to talk...'; He says we fight too much, the hurt is equal to the happiness it shouldn't be this way though whenever we fought we got over any problem in a matter of hours, and he had always pointed this fact out when I became insecure.
I just need some reassurance, I love him very much and had always felt mutual love if not more from him. I don't understand... should I give him space and see if he returns? Or should I move on and try to forget my first love? Or is this just a Libra trait to disappear randomly?
My aspects:
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Sagittarius
Venus - Aries
Mars - Gemini
Rising - Libra
His aspects:
Sun - Libra
Moon - Scorpio
Venus - Virgo
Mars - Aries
Rising - Aquarius(Though not entirely sure...)Libra problems... advice please?
this is not a disappearing act.actually he said ';we fight too much';.This fighting is actually taking out HARMONY from his life which is a libras keyword.
libras really want peace in their life.if this doesnt happen then everything in their life become messed up.libras dont like the serious fights but the fun fights are okay with them.
from the information that u've provided it seems like he really loved you,but its the hurt and fighting things that caused him to breakup.....
this all is making him lose his peace of mind.trust me they really need their relationship to be balanced and peace.too much fighting makes them lose their control over themselves and life.
give him his space,libras need that too.if he fells like he need you he will come to u.wait for sometime.Libra problems... advice please?
I'd just forget him. There are too many men in this world to be crying over one. I have lost wht I thought was my ';true love'; but guess what? another one will come along if you move on with your life and don't let a boring Libra bring you down.
I'v enever been attracted to Libras.
Libra boys are gay/bisexual stay away from him, you will be hurt later on, go for a virgo with a sag moon.
Please you give your birth details for your good answer
Libra's and Pisces have an attraction. I was, and still am, in love with her (a Libra). Libra's can give a Pisces the reassurance we need due to our insecurities. It is odd, Pisces have a great inner strength and wisdom, and there are times we ';just need to know'; someone is by our side.
Libra's hate when the harmony of the relationship is off balance. Of course, they will upset the apple cart to get a reaction out of you. They are FULL of contradictions.
There is a wave-length difference between Pisces and Libras. Libras don't understand the emotions that Pisces ';get into'; sometimes. They innately don't know what to do...
Be aware, he more than likely has someone already. Libras have their eye out when a relationship goes haywire.
Move on...
If Astrology didn't exist, I would say there is something about you that he doesn't like to the core and that one (or may be more) thing has taken precedence over all the mutual love you share. And, mind you, the thing that he doesn't like about you is something that he places a high importance on. I have seen this thing happen with me and in a lot of other relationships. The relationship falls apart if this 'thing/s' doesn't sort out forever.
The only option you should go for is talk straight and openly about what made him take this decision. Is there something that he doesn't like about you. What is it? Find out and see for yourself how does it feel if you were in his shoes. Since your relationship has already survived more than an year, I am sure it's a very deep relationship which has the potential of migrating to marriage. If you don't find out, you may never see him again.
Take your decision.
Good Luck.
Johnny.
FIRST of all u too are NOT compatible at all astrologically. he is anair sign and u are a water sign, u have now way of understandiing each other. i am a water sign as well- scorpio, married to alibra..four years and trust me it sucks. u are an emotional being..very deep emotions, and libras as air signs do not understand deep emotions at all, which allows them to be the social beings they are, they in fact avoid deep emotions at all costs because it confuses them, they like balance in life. libras are very romantic and in LOVE with the idea of beiing in love, and trust me if he broke up with u its cuz he feels nothing for u...let it go, move on, save urself and find a more compatible water sign who will understand u and giv u wat u need. what u probly love about him by the way is the appeal of how romantic he is and how nice and easygoing, but there is nothing else there, not what u r lookin for
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