Friendship problems, advice please, I would really appreciate it.?

last year I had two best mates and now they don't care, like, at all.


I was upset about a few things to do with family, etc..


%26amp;%26amp;%26amp; i got really withdrawn, i guess..


but now, i feel better.. but they're not there anymore. i know that's probably my fault but i couldn't help it and it's like, just them two now.. and i try and i try to make it up to them, i really do, but then they're like alright but we aren't *mates* and they're not really nice to be anymore.


%26amp; i wouldn't mind if they like, hated me, cuz at least i'd know how they felt, but i've asked them and they think i've changed...


i dont know what to doooooo.


they mean so much to me and i just don't want to throw it all away, but i can't cope with it.


i'm sick of crying and being alone, i just can't do it anymore


please, please, help--


%26amp; i do have other mates but they aren't like me and they're already in their own groups,:(


thanksFriendship problems, advice please, I would really appreciate it.?
point one please don't say like so much it makes the story very hard to follow.


2. its easier to get over things when they hate you but then who will you hang out with.


3. the only way to sort this out properly is to tell them what has been happening and explain the way you feel, i know they might already know but you telling them might get it into their heads.


if you have to shout and make a scene do that, and if a slap might do the trick do it, people generally feel angry for a few days and then things are back to normal after a good argument.


good luckFriendship problems, advice please, I would really appreciate it.?
The best thing you should do is stop trying to do things for them and talk everything seriously out! Scream if you have to get their attention, if they miss you as a friend they should understand otherwise they are not good friends for leaving you when you were down they should of supported you!