In law problems?? advice?

well here is the problem. my husband's family had a business and my husband was in the line to own everything but he also have a brother who at the time was seeing this girl. after we got married he came back from the us and get married 3 months after, however he went back to the us cuz his wife wanted to go, but after seeing the way my husband and i was living the wealthy life the girl started to envy us, she started to call my mother in law and talk s***, so my mother in law believed her and do away with the business so my husband was left with nothing and she talk a whole bunch of rubbish about me. it has been year and my mother in law hasn't talk to me or my husband, however she calls the other daughter in law. the problem is that my husband is in the us and it will take about 3 yrs for me to go and this b**** has her visa and is goin away. its eating me and because of this every little thing trips me off and i would fight with my husband. i am crying most of the time..help.adviceIn law problems?? advice?
I am having a difficult time understanding the question, but I would just like to remind you that there are more important things in life than money. If you don't get the business, it is not the end of the world. Don't wait for it, start your own. I also know that it is hard to be away from your spouse, but keep in contact get web cams if you don't already have them, and stay in touch as much as possible. The most important relationship is with your husband, let the others take care of themselves .In law problems?? advice?
You summed up the real problem in the first sentence. Your husband WAS in line for taking over the family business. It doesn't really matter why your inlaws decided he doesn't get it. It's their hard work and their money. They can use any excuse (and were probably looking for one). People dont build a business for 30 or more years and then on a whim hand it to the chick who gets her visa first..... they have thought this out, painstakingly and you didn't get it. done. time for your husband and you to live in the reality of supporting yourselves without the benefit of a family built business cushion... it sucks....but not everyone gets handed this opportunity...put it in perspective.... it was a possibility....but you thought it was a golden ticket.....there are no guarantees in life....you can work hard, get a degree and find yourself in a car wreck.....this is no different....it was something reasonable that you hoped to accomplish....and you still can own your own business, but you need a new business plan... to get caught up in the drama and what ifs will just limit your ability to get going and find your own way..... stop crying.... this is no different than the 1st Christmas you didn't get the giant barbie you asked for..... you should have gotten it but you didn't.....the question remains, what are you going to do about it? waste the rest of the year crying? or start making a life for yourself??? Hate to be harsh...but your inlaws are not the problem....you and your husband are.
i understand your problem.my in-laws don't talk to me either.but i don't give a fu**.i'm married to my husband not his family.
Well I will put it the way I see it,


1. your mad because you dont have the money.


2. your mad because your mother-n-law is'nt speaking to you.


3. your sister-n-law has her visa and leaving.


1 I can understand 2 and 3 you should be happy about, i am glad my in-laws dont speak to me,he** my life couldn't be better.


Maybe you should get a job and help earn the monies you are use to.