first off next time he puts his hands on you put him in jail is he on your lease if not have the cops remove him and get a protective order on you and your kids then you dont have to worry you dont have a penny because your taking care of his loser wife beating cheating no good *** and hes worthless guess what it took me almost 6 years to leave mine and you cant fool me I know your scared Ive been there done that and what I just told you to do is exactly what I did. He will run you into the ground financially like mine did and then what will you do and where will you go even if he is on the lease you pay the bills and can still have him taken off and removed by the cops also watching porn in front of your eight year old and leaving the baby with her to go get beer is child endagerment and contributing to a minor which is major jail time and if you dont leave him and someone calls the dhs you will lose your kids if you cant get him out then go to a shelter or to a family members house but you need to leave him before he either kills you or costs you your kids please get out of itMajor relationship problems, advice please?
Just leave, you are not married to him! He is putting your children in danger! That should be a deal breaker for any mother!
Choose more carefully - next time.
WTF?? YOU WOULD RATHER HAVE AN ******* WALK ALL OVER YOU THEN BE ALONE? LEAVE HIS AS*
I was in a similar situation with my soon to be ex-husband. We got married and I got severely injured and after that he didn't want nothing to do with me claiming that he didn't want to hurt my jaw. I had it wired shut for a couple weeks. Well during our entire dating and married relationship his ex always was in the picture. He came up with excuse after excuse on why they were still talking. I believed every work because I loved him. He also was constantly on porn sites claiming they were just pop ups. He supposedly never looked at them. Then there was also a cupid.com website he had. He broke me down to the lowest I had ever been. I found out that him and his ex that he supposedly just talked to were actually sleeping together the entire time. I had enough. I packed my bags and left and haven't looked back. Its hard, it hurts like hell, and scary but as long as you surround yourself with people who really love you instead of phonies that pretend to you will get through it and be a stronger woman for it. Its not going to be easy by no means but there are plenty of organizations out there that help single moms get back on their feet. Trust me Get out now. You don't want to look back in 20 years and see that you have wasted your life on a looser. Get out and make your self happy, it will be hard but you will be happy you did it. Good luck
Sorry I don't feel this man loves you
He is drinking popping pills ,watching porn , leaving baby w/ a 8 year old, he has no concern for your children , And they should come first,
There are so many places out there to help single mom's .
You should not have to put up w/ this man,
I would go to the state get some help,
You can also go to W.I.C. they will help w/ milk %26amp; things for your children under 5 years of age.
Id pack his things up and kick him to the curb.
You can also go to your Church they too can help you get on your feet
You can't just put this in God's hands
You have to take some action before something happens to one of YOUR children...
They should always come before a man does
Good Luck to you and your children
Dont be scared youll get over it and be so proud of yourself... do not be scared of being alone, don't you realize that when you will be by your own, he won't hurt you anymore... think about that peace that you need, think about that heart of yours that is so broken appart, give this heart a break of all that pain, give yourself what you deserve ! an happy life, ive been there ok, might look scary from where you are... but trust me on the other side its a joyfull life, some days are hard, but nothing nothing to compaire what you are going through right now... come on be strong for your baby, be strong for yourself and leave !!! Do you know how proud you will feel ? do you know what good you will be doing to your kids... do you know that they need you to protect them from these bad behavior, come on you are strong enough to make that move, and you will never ever be alone, always your kids will be there !!! look i did not even have any friends... but i made it... and feel very proud of myself so you will !!! and that peace has no price, take a litle step a the time, but trust me this move will be the best ever, and you are giving yourself a chance to find a REAL MAN one day... a real one that will respect and love you !
I am sure you can do it... I am sure youll succeed, and be happy ! build up that courage and do that for you and your kids.
Hope this help and i really hope youll be able to make the move.
NO ONE DESERVE TO BE THREATED THAT WAY ! you do not deserve that !!! RUN !!!!!
you can do it!
you can do it!!
you can do it!!
time to do it, you can do it.
you certainly do not need a man in your life who is gonna hurt you in so many ways...................you have your children to think about........you said you have teenage GIRLS....?
he's on porn sites, you have teenage girls, hmmmmmmmmmmm
time to move on!!!
you can do it.
strength comes in all shapes and sizes.
you can do it.
my advice is get rid of this man he shows you no respect its better to be on your own than second best you cam do better than that.it is scary being on your own but it has to be better than what you are going through now. do you have a family member you can talk to. he needs help i suggest you end it but tell him if he gets help and proves it and still wants to be with you then you might slowly give him a chance. but i doubt he will try to keep you as i don't think he cares for anyone but himself.good luck
If you know you can make it then whats to be scared of?? He isnt the only man on this planet and being happy is up to you and shouldnt be dependant on someone else. He seems to have already checked out of the relationship so I would go adn move on.......but somehow I think you're too scared to actually follow through on that
ESCAPE ESCAPE ESCAPE please my mum was in a relationship with a man who cheated on her lied to her stole everything he was a really nasty piece of work just like ur describing, because she is still with him she has lost all of her kids including me. i stayed with her until the end but it wasn't until he stole 600 ounds from my bf that i made the final straw and left. i hardly see my mum now and i get upset about it cause i love her to pieces. i know the reason why she goes back to him it because, like you she is scared of bein on her own. but please if you want you kids to stay with you then you need to get rid of him straight away! i know its not easy and its guna be a challenge but try and get help from friends and family. it will effect your kids i know because its definatley effected me and my 3 brothers. shes got her man now but she hasnt got her children (i wanna cry cause i miss her so much) but i know that things between us wont be the same again!!! do you want this to happen with u and ur kids??
good luck with everything and please pick your kids over this man i know my mum would love to have that choice again :(
Dont waist your time tracking his computer/porn use unless your actually going to do something. I think you became a doormat when you caught him talking to his ex and you didn't leave him. Its like telling him that he can do anything that he wants and your just going to yell and threaten but, not take any action. I know how hard it can be to be on your own but, sometimes its worth it.Plus, he will have to help you out since you have a child together.
I don't have a problem with my BF watching porn, so I cant give you any advice with that.
I really feel for you this must be very hard just remember that you deserve so much better how could he do this to you and dw it is not the end of the world it might feel like it now but you will get over this i am also scared of being alone so i dont leave the people that dont treat me the way they should but i think you should leave him this will be very hard but it is better then going through this everyday you cant change some one if they dont want to hopefully you will find some one that treats you with respect becouse thats what you deserve good luck
I'm not sure what you are asking. He steals, drinks, screws around, watches porn to get off, treats you like crap, got physical with your daughter, etc. What do you want to hear? I get that you are scared but he physically harmed your daughter. If I was in the situation my concern would be how long of a jail term I would be getting when I killed the bastard for even considering touching my child. Leave the bastard and thank god you got out befoew this screwed up person really hurts someone.
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