i like this one guy...and i think i kinda messed things up between me and him because he told me he likes me some time ago but now, we happen to get mad at eachother over absolutely nothing....stupid stuff like...me not geting his jokes when he 'makes fun of me' and when i get angry at him 4 it...i dont thnk he likes me that much anymore...i just dont know how to make things all better again! help please....!I rly need some advice....[boy problems again!]
The next time you guys get into a fight. Stop, take a deep breath, and bring it to his attention that the two of you always fight. Tell him that that's not what you want your relationship to be. You should also apologize, even if you've done nothing wrong, this is a technique I learned from the sages (my grandfather), and now I pass it to you. Then ask him if he would like to go out with you.
If he keeps coming back to ';make fun of you'; even though you end up angry at each other, that may indicate that he still likes you, or at the very least, doesn't want your relationship to end on the last argument. Avoid the topics that usually lead to arguments, and try to resolve an argument as early as possible. Guys making fun of you is also a common indicator that they like you. It's impossible to move backward in a relationship, you can only move forward and hope that it is as good as it once was.
Just be careful. Even if you two have chemistry, getting into arguments with each other isn't an indicator of a healthy relationship. But, who am I to talk, my grandparents argued every day I saw them, married fifty years.
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