Girl Problems/Advice Please?

i met a girl and we hung out for awhile and hooked up over a month without commitment but it was like we were going out. things seemed great she liked me and i liked her and then one day it just changed. neither of us did anything but she just quit being herself and being a friend with benefits now we just hang out and talk like were friends. Im still interested in her tho and i don't know if i should say something to her about it all, im kind of just riding it out to see what happens. Comments/Thoughts/Advice anyone?Girl Problems/Advice Please?
I think your girl is having a change of heart. She is maybe rethinking what you guys have been doing and just trying to get some space to think. It could be possible that as much fun as you guys may have been having, she found someone that she is really into in a serious way. And now she wants to back off and feel 'clean' again before persuing him. I have been the girl in this situation before. I think the best thing for you to do is give her the space she needs, but let her know you're there for her AS A FRIEND and don't try coming onto her. Eeven if the mood is right. Iit couldn't hurt to just confront her honestly about the situation. Ask her because you care about her and want to see her happy. This will get you the information that you crave, let her get her feelings out in the open and everything off her chest. Basically- why wait around letting the awkwardness of the situation build up when you could be making resolutions and hanging onto a good friend before she completely cuts you off? If you pressure her or are too attentive when she needs space, i can almost guarentee she'll be keeping her distance. Talk to her while you still can! Wishing you the best of luck, hope everything works out for the best:)Girl Problems/Advice Please?
ask her, you womt know until you ask. if she wants to be a friend then be a friend. maybe she is geeting tired of being friends w/ benefits.
seems like she just wants to be friends. if thats the case stay friends and give it time it may lead to a better realationship
ive never had a friend with benefits, but i have liked a friend as more than a friend. heres some thoughts and advice form a girls perspective. she might want to be more than just ';friends with benefits.'; she might want a real relationship. maybe she wants more than just hooking up. on the other hand she may think you guys are better off as ';just friends'; OR maybe she thinks YOU just want to be friends. you also said she just stopped being herself so maybe its not you and she has something on her mind. talk to her. tell her how you feel, ask her if she wants to be more than ';just friends';, ask her if somethings bugging her. the point is, it could be a few different things and you really should talk this out with her. i mean benefits or not, you're still her friend right? just please dont let this go because it will eat at you and you will always wonder what would have happened if you had done something instead of ';riding it out'; (trust me on that one, i know from experience.)
she thinks that because u have no commitment u will not think of her change. girls DOOO REALLY LIKE a commitment for her assurance and security that she wil be the only one u cud stay devoted to. i know that guys like u get their hair rise through their skin but if u really like her and u are serious for her, u better court her and ask her to enter the commitment of having her as ur gf and u as her bf. go boy.! u can do it.! :)


love lots,


hao :)
She's testing you. She WANTS to advance to another level with you. Friends with benefits? I think not. She saw it as RELATIONSHIP, and you saw it as friends with benefits.





Didn't it seem kind of wierd how it stopped? She wants to know where you stand. Actions speak louder than words, and she wants to see what your actions portray to her. Will you move on to that level where she wants to be, or will you not GET IT?





Hope this helps.
more than likely shes looking for a commitment if you want a girl friend nows the best time to ask her