Married coworker problems.....advice?

I am a single, very work-focused female. There is a coworker who is married, but acts as though he has feelings for me (flirts, asked me out, pays extra attention). I have said no, but the thing is that we are both in the same field, and have a lot in common. He could be just having fun, I don't know. But, I sometimes think that I have a crush on him too. But, I am not the kind that will approach confess or anything. Any advice on what I should do?Married coworker problems.....advice?
you need to keep reminding him and yourself that he is married. if he is cheating on his wife, he will cheat on you as well or perhaps dump you once you are emotionally involved. If you think it is harmless it may be but on the other hand, think of Scott Peterson who was playing around on his wife until he killed her to be with someone else. If you were in the wife's position, you would not want your husband to be hitting on other women and when you do get married you will not want that, so don't do it to another woman now. remember that this is your job and if the wife finds out that the two or you were having an affair you could end up with her there creating a scene which may cause both ot you to be fired. Stick to work and find someone single and you will be rar happier!!Married coworker problems.....advice?
Naaaaaaaaaa... Stay away... If he's willing to do it with you, what's to say he won't do the same with you?
He is married so ';hands off'; next time tell him your relationship is strickly professional. Which means no after work drinks, non work talk, etc. If you get involved there is a lot of trouble ahead for both of you.
Take all the chances to RUN! Never give him chance or you, to start any affair. You will be happy for quite sometime but ... you will regret it for the rest of your life.





I know its difficult.... especially if you have already develop something ... but you can do it. Just think of the consequences. Especially that you are working together. Probably you know, the worst situation that will gonna happen is that...scandal... losing your job and losing your dignity, especially that you are single. Don't let him play with your life. You are the BIG LOSER. He just want .... S..X. All man like that.





Never give him chance. Tell him back-off and just be happy and contented as friends together and nobody will be hurt.





BE STRONG, okey? You can find better than him.





God Bless.
Run far away from this man, lest you commit adultery. You don't want a man in your life that has no integrity, is a dishonest, two faced, cheating, lying adulterer.
That happened to me and didn't turn out well. My advice is find a single guy.
RUN, danger will robinson....................
Well, for me, the best thing that i could give you as an advice is to take it easy, don't jump to the conclusion yet, coz if you will have to show your feelings to him, you might be losing his friendship. It seems the guy didn't proposed to you yet, so, if i were you just be yourself and have fun together and all the best!
He's married. Don't go there.
You should go with your feelings. If you wanna have a 3 to 6 month fling, go for it.





The twentysomething women in this group will certainly give me thumbs down, but that doesn't mean I'm wrong.
If he is married and he likes to flirt..that is bad news. Don't fall into his trap. Plus dating someone you work with almost always turns out bad. Keep your distance and stay focused.
yeah..stay away from married men...I think you already know that..
Make like Forrest and run. Far and fast. That would not only endanger his personal life bigtime, but may also make your worklife environment awkward.
If he makes inappropriate remarks, clearly and directly tell him to stop, and threaten to report him for harrassment if he persists. You don't need to be put in this awkward situation all the time and he needs to know for the sake of his career if his behaviour is crossing a line it shouldn't cross.





And nobody needs the potential emotional trainwreck of an office affair.





So throw some cold water on it.
keep it friendly but getting involved with not only a married man, but a co worker......you are definitely playing with fire
Never, ever start up a relationship with a coworker, particularly a MARRIED coworker. Nothing good ever comes out of them. I have seen it too often!!








First off, he is a cheater, and if you got involved with him, he would probably cheat on you too. He probably screws anything that will give him attention. Don't believe that stuff about his wife not sleeping with him, or cheating on him, or being a *****. And NO, he is not ever going to leave his wife and kids for you!!! That is all lies they tell to get you into bed. That is how those married cheating guys are.





Number two, when a coworkers relationship ends, either someone ends up fired, or the workplace becomes very uncomfortable for the ex couple, and all of the other coworkers.





Number three, it causes jealousy in the workplace, and people begin to start rumors.





This advice all comes from a number experiences that I have witnessed with coworkers and friends.