Guy Problems!?! advice plz.?

okay so my ex broke up with me but he didnt tell me the reason why he broke up with me. so he told his best friend and his best friend told my best friend and she told me.


he broke up with me because im too shy. What am i suppose to do now? i really like him still, but he doesnt feel the same way about me i guess. :/


He even has a girlfriend already. So what should i do, or what should i say to him, to get him back.


Thanks for the help.


~Lindsey~


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;]Guy Problems!?! advice plz.?
Prove to him you arent shy by confronting him. Apparently he was too shy or too big of a coward to confront you and break up with you so he took the easy way out and done it the grade school way. Go ask him what his deal is and get to the bottom of it. Dont let him run over you. If he has a girlfriend already then forget it, sounds like he is still in grade school and if he told his buddy to tell you, you dont need him anyway. He sounds childish.Guy Problems!?! advice plz.?
If you want to be with him, you have to change the fact that your shy. But personally, i would just say forget him, cuz he obviously doesnt really care if he already has a girlfriend and its not worth it if you have to be someone different.
,sheesh... you don't have to think about that guy.. he's nuts..





,he's going to take advantage to you.. promise..





,make yourself good and be yourself.. I know there will be better guys out there..





,trust me,,
First of all, how old r u? If this is a young teenager puppy love scenario then a shallow young teenage ';boy'; has hormones firing and he is wanting to explore. I am sure the best excuse he could come up with was about you being shy. Certainly if this guy had any feelings for you, he would not break up with u b/c u r shy!! That is crazy. He is wanting to play and and probably already had his eyes set on this new girl. He was not worth it and DO NOT take him back b/c if it happens once shame on him, happens twice, shame on YOU.
maybe you should make him jelous.


or stop him in his tracks in a single look then probly he will be


eating out of you hands;-)
DTMFA! Now!!! Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? If he can't see all your god qualities and focuses on this one issue alone then he is a jerk and doesn't deserve a minute more of your time. Just wait until he discovers that the new girl has a patch of cellulite on her *** (or some other stupid thing)...then you can laugh...but don't take him back!
Well, I would have IMed you for more info, but I couldn't find your screen name on your information.


Information not straight from his mouth could have been twisted by your best friend (or his) so you wouldn't be hurt. If he's already got another girlfriend, than I think you should just forget about him.


If you speak with him, and you feel you should say something, say something in the form of ';Hey, I heard that you broke up with me because I'm shy. But, you know, I'm glad you did, that way I can learn for the next time I get a boyfriend! Good luck, I heard you have a girlfriend!'; Walk away, looking like the better person. (And... you already ARE the better person!)
well girl, Right off the bat i think you should just forget about him. If he got another girl that fast it means that he really didn't care about you. Now, if you really want him back, i say you find a way to talk to him. Talk to his friends and say things that you know they'll tell him. Just to get him to talk to you. When you do get to talk to him then show him different sides of you, if you really are shy then try to change that. Show him that you're trying.
Don't even go there. When he said ';you're too shy'; it means he wanted to just get ';you know what'; from you. And the fact that he has a girlfriend already means he just wants that from her too. If she's easy he might stay with her or move on the next. Good job not giving him the satisfaction.