Relationship problems need some good advice. ?

okay i have a gf lets call her Shelby well i really like her but, i also have a huge crush on this other girl. But i don't want to hurt ny gf's feelings. What do you suggest?Relationship problems need some good advice. ?
You are young. Break up with your girlfriend (do the right thing) and start dating -- you might date this girl or another girl, but you're obviously not ready for a relationship. Just do the right and live your life. Don't keep a girl hanging on just to have ';someone'; around in the meantime. That's not how a real man should act. Good luck.Relationship problems need some good advice. ?
You need to give some more info.


How long have you and Shelby been together?


Do you want to date this other girl or is it just a crush?


If it is developing into real feelings then your sort of emotionally cheating on your gf.


If it is just a crush - it will blow over in a month or so.


Dont tell your gf, she will probably freak out.


If you have a open and honest relationship, tell her, and reassure her it means nothing. Its good to talk about this stuff when your in a mature relationship.


You didnt give your age, but Im guessing your young,coz you call the girls and not woman.


Do you think you and this other girl stand a chance? If yes, and you think she will make you happier than your current gf, I say go for it.


No matter how you put things, she will get hurt, one way or the other, doesnt matter how tactful you try and be.
If I was Shelby, I'd hope you have the biggest crush on me, not another girl.





I think you should examine your relationship with Shelby. Is something lacking? Are your needs unmet? Are you still attracted to her? Or would you still like to mingle with other people?





Whatever it is, it's best to communicate and to be honest - with yourself and with her. If it's just a fantasy, or something like that, I would say why start something with your girlfriend. But since you are asking this question, it seems like there is something about this girl that you need to discover and explore. If you want to pursue this other girl, then be fair and talk with Shelby. It might be a hard conversation, but faithfulness is in action, word, and thought that pursues a single direction.
Don't string your gf along for the ride. If you have feelings for someone else then maybe you should end things. Or if you really care about your gf and don't want to hurt her then stay with her and faithful and forget about this crush. If you keep your gf and something happens with this crush it would hurt her more then just breaking it off now.
i would say never break up with the one your really with if you still love that person cause if you do leave your current and get with the new then you never know how it will end up you know your current will probably not even talk to you again and things could always go rong with the new and you know how life is wit your current cause your with her and you claim that you love her remember love is always stronger than a crush and thats how its always gonna be and always keep that in mind when you see both of them a crush could always just be that you like them alot as a good friend


hope this helped and good luck
if you really like your gf, then u should cut off all ties with this other girl because it will possibly lead to cheating. if you are not so serious with your gf then you should just break up with her if you are already starting to have feelings for other girls. might as well cut it off now, before she falls in love with you and it will be harder.
wel im not suprised at all! i also had the same problem and instead of talking about it i went on and dated the guy only to find out later he is related to my bf. rather tell your chick to lay off or find out what the other chick things of you, wether you can be happy with her as much as you were with your chick. good luck, later!!!!!!!!!
your gonna hurt her either way unless you figure out you dont really like girl #2. just dont be an *** about it and date the next girl within like a week cuz thats just lame. the friend thing is usually good. i like you so much as a friend its just not working as a couple. UNLESS youve been dating girl #1 for a while ie a year give or take a couple months. then think really really long about what youd be losing.
just accept you can be attracted to many girls but you still have to pick one so keep the others in your dream





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Stick with your girl, a crush is usually just an infatuation which passes over time.
If you care about your girlfriend and want to keep her, forget the crush, completely, now.
Follow your instincts. Go for the other girl. Let Shelby free.
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Get to know them both and see which you like better.
Get rid of the gf. You won't hurt her if she's not your gf
break up with your girl friend of you wanna be with this other girl.
dump the old before you bring in more trash
dont have regrets. do what u gotta do.
choose one of them and u gonna be happy