Depressed.... boyfriend problems.... advice? please

I'm 15 years old. I know that sounds young to be saying all of this, so I dont need you telling me that....





Me and my recently broken up with boyfriend had been going out for a little over a year and three months, and I realized that I have been missing out on a lot.... I love him and he has always been really good to me, but he had been very jealous, and I missed going out and having all of my friends and everything....





I dont blame him for being jealous, but I just need space (I'm sure some of you would understand, if not all)





So one night I went out with my friend to her boyfriend or something house, and slept over (I never cheated on him or anything, so it wasn't like that)





obviously he was upset and everything, but I realized just how much I missed talk to other guys, and hanging out with a group of people





we broke up, he actually broke up with me first, saying 'he knew it was what I want'





and honestly, I dont know if I would have broke up with him otherwise





we fought ALOT. too much. I cried to much, yelled to much, stressed out to much, and I realized that I didn't need too.





I would have to lose someone I love, but I needed to find myself again, because i felt like I wasn't myself.

















He has taken it really bad. I have been going out, having fun, and of course I feel bad, but apparently not as bad as he want me too feel





I called him and he told me he had stayed in his room, didnt et or get up toehr then to get pictured of us to look at in his bed.... he said hes cryed (he likes to be 'strong' and not cry infront of me) and he says what hurting him most is that I ';don't care'; which I do.... I told him to go out, but he says he doesnt feel like it, and hes just saying all these things and I feel terrible


he says he wont do this to himself again (fall in love, love someone) because he gets hurt


he says he doesnt want to find another girl because he loves me











I told him he still has a chance in the future, but he doesnt believe me.... I told him I love him (which I do) and he says that I dont, and to stop lying to him....





I want him to know he's not alone, but I can't sacrifice my own happiness too.... But I can't see him like this (or hear him, more like) because It's killing me....





What do I do?








I have no idea what to do.... thanks for reading, and please give me some advice....





Much love, thankyou.





If you have any questions just ask.





Thanks again.Depressed.... boyfriend problems.... advice? please
I think you know if you go back to the relationship your going to be miserable. I know the feeling like you lost yourself and right now is a great time to find yourself. Just hang out with your friends and each and everyday will be easier. Move on and it would make it a lot easier if you have no contact with him, trust me. And your young, you'll find another guy in no time.Depressed.... boyfriend problems.... advice? please
well he needs to understand that you have needs too...and that you really do love him...and care for him but you just cant give up everything that you love just to be with him;. if he really loves you then he needs to trust that you wont do anything to hurt him. and your right your to young to be stressing and stuff... because im the same age and going threw alot like this...but just tell him to give you some space. because if yall do end up getting back together your not going to be happy if you cant do what you want to. i hope i helped you a little..








bye!!!



girl i know its really tough


and you probably dont wanna hear this


but its just gonna take time


maybe explain to him why you did things and that might help


maybe yall could start hanging out with groups again both of you and maybe take it from there


maybe it would be better


i dont know if this helps but thats all i can think of


stay strong and stay true to yourself!
Go back out with him. But let him know, that ur the type of girl who tlks 2 guy just like u do 2 girls. let him kno u dont cheat and never did cheat. tel him if he wants 2 go all emo and jelous then he can forget it.








(hes most deffinitly liying tho)


help me guys!!!!





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