Would anybody give me any advice on relationship problems?

For the first time in my life, there is a girl i like that actually likes me back, but i have a big problem





One of my best friends is her ex and my other best friend fancies the hell out of her





I don't want to jeapordise my relationship with my friends but i also want a girlfriend as i've never had one before :(





Please give me advice on what to do?Would anybody give me any advice on relationship problems?
think of yourself for once...


go for it...


you can get new friend's...Would anybody give me any advice on relationship problems?
i think you should tell your friends about it. tell them how much you like her and if there your real friends the will accept it and move on. or if there dont likeyou have to think if your friendship is worth losing for this girl as they say freinds come and go but best freinds stay for a life time.

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I think you have to talk to your friends first. They might not be totally happy with it but 1, if they are true friends they'll still be there and 2, they can't accuse you of doing anything behind their backs. If you and this girl both like each other then they should see that being together will make u happy and back you up. If they are not happy with it then you have to consider what type of friendship you have with these two, but also how much you think of this girl to jeopardise your friendships.
carry on what your doing if your going to ask this girl out and then tell her you have this kinda problem concerning her ex and your mate so if its what you want to then be with this girl you need to just let your mates know that your dating her and seeing how things go but you don't want there to have to be problems between you too, sadly girls will always come and go but mates are hard to find good luck hun :)
ask your friends if they feel comfortable with it?





to be honest i think you should just forget her. its wrong to go out with someone who could break up your friendships.....





but if you really care for her just go for it. remember romeo and juliet? they ignored everyone else for love! romantic! x
so long as this girl likes you back and is choosing you above the others - just concentrate on developing the relationship with her---I would put the girl before my friends %26amp; not worry about them---they will still be your friends too
i think that you should just go for it, i mean whats the worse that could , you have to ask yourself, would you friends do the same thing if they were in your shoes.
Normally, guys don't care about that. They usually understand that there are other girls out there, but if your friend starts going out with her, just let it go. To break them up would be cockblocking.
Go for it but don't try to hide it from your friends, be upfront, chances are they'll just say lucky bastard and forget about it!
I think you should talk to your friends about her and see if they are comfortable and ok with it.


Other than that go out with her. your friends will understand how you feel.
let the best man win... if you want her and she wants you then the others won't have any say in what happens.. Be man go get her!