so there is this guy i am really good friends with and i sort of have started to fall for him. i knew for sure he liked me, say a month ago, but now i am unsure if he still likes me. he always gives me compliments, even though i know he gives alot of girls compliments it still makes me feel good, you know...? anyway i like him but i dont want to ruin any friendship. he's the best guy friend i have ever had. any advice would be great.thanks so much. 鈾?GGuy problems. advice pleease =)?
Yes, he still likes you. It sounds like he is somewhat comfortable with the ladies (ie. the compliments to them), but perhaps he lacks the fortitude to get things started with you.
Either way, if want this guy, let him know and make him yours. Offer to go out with him somewhere, just the two of you and get the chemistry flowing. Do not worry about losing the friendship, because all great romances start with a good friendship. If the romantic side is ment to be, it will be. If you never try, then you will never know what a wonderful couple you may have been.
Chances are, that worst case scenario, you two date a while and if the romantic side does not last, at least you do have the common friendship to fall back on.
Try for the best and follow you heart. Don't worry about the future, you're too young. Whatever gets broken will be fixed if it is worth fixing. Enjoy the moment....and your man!!Guy problems. advice pleease =)?
ok so ask him if he likes you if he doesn't than it might ruin your friendship but if he does than its worth a shot or maybe you could get a friend to ask i dont know
ask him out. and dont let the friendship get awkward if he declines.
I tend to find that the women are the ones (not all the time, but most) that let.make the friendships get awkward after revealing romantic feelings.
The girl asking the guy out isnt weird. this is the 21st century. women have rights. including ot ask the guy out. so do it.
Your feelings will get too strong sometime and then you will be angry you didnt ask him out while he was single, and then it will get awkward because youll be left hanging there.
ASK HIM OUT. and dont think ';cant I get him to ask me out';
Nobody ever magically makes someone do something without any interaction abotu it to the other party. so ask him out.
just tell him how u feel i did that and even though the person didnt feel the same way we are still good friends
you should probably seek love in another guy. it doesn't usually work out when it comes to situations like that. then you lose a boyfriend and a friend all at the same time. keep him as a friend, it'll be more rewarding for you both.
just say these exact words or something close: ';(what ever his name is) I'm not sure if we are on the same page and i dont want to ruin are friendship or anything but i was wondering if we could take our relationship to the next step and if not its ok i will be ok staying as friends.'; .. also you better be over 18 other wise focus on school and wait until you get to college.
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