Thursday, July 29, 2010

Bf problems? Advice please!?

I recently had a very awkward phone conversation with my boyfriend of 2 months. I asked him if he wanted to hang out soon. He said he wasn't sure if he could because he was in and out of town for the next couple of weeks. I am also going on a trip for a while and he promised he would call me as soon as I get back. However, he also mentioned that ';this didn't really seem to be working'; referring to our relationship and I sort of waited for him to go on but he didn't say anything else. He just started talking again about how he was going to call me. Does he want to break up with me or not? And if he does what can I do about it?Bf problems? Advice please!?
My boyfriend and I just broke up from similar problems. If it's not working then it's not working. You can't change how he feels. However, if he isn't willing to stick it out and stay with you then that's pathetic. Relationships do take time and commitment. It's just wrong to give up when something rough is happening. It can't be peachy all the time! If he breaks up with you expect to feel hurt and you're going to feel the need to blame yourself like any other girl.





The only way to move on and get over it is TIME. But before-hand. Let him know - say something like ';I know we haven't had much time for each other, but it's something that I am willing to work through. I feel that you are worth it. I hope you feel the same way.'; that kind of thing. If he doesn't go for it then there isn't much you can do. But feeling hurt is unavoidable.Bf problems? Advice please!?
I think that maybe he just needs some time to think maybe give him a little while off and then if he keeps saying things like i dont think this is working out, agree with him or ask him if there is any way you could work it out with each other do what you think is right. : )
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