Relationship problems...Advice?

So me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months going on 8... And he has been growing very very distant to me... Like, he doesn't call anymore unless just saying goodnight) or says he is going to hang with friend when he hasn't seen me in months... He started to do things I don't like him doing when he never used to do them and he almost left my party early to go hang out with his sister... I don't want to be wasting my time... I love him and everything, but I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same about me anymore... Anyone have advice?Relationship problems...Advice?
Tell him you don't want to be with him if he is not commited to your relationship. You could ask him if he loves you but he might not be truthful- i don't know, you know him better than I do...





Also mention your 8 month anniversary and see how he reacts.





Good Luck! ;-)Relationship problems...Advice?
It sounds like you want attention from your boyfriend (and there isn't anything wrong with that) and he either doesn't want to give it or he just isn't into anymore. I'm not sure what the deal is with you guys not seeing each other for months, but it sounds like you should cut your losses and find someone else. You're better off that way.
awww ='( that's horrible!! i think you need to be very independent and show him that if he's not willing to make the relationship work then you can live without him...even if that's not how you feel. If he really likes you he'll understand what he's doing wrong and try to fix it, and if not then he doesnt deserve you!
It could be that he's gotten really comfortable around you, doesn't care anymore, is afraid of intimacy/commitment, or doesn't know what to do any more. The best thing to do would be talk to him, figure out why, and then go from there. It could be that he doesn't even know he's doing it.
Talk to him about it. Don't yell, just talk. Tell him what you just told us, and ask him what's going on. Keep your voice soft and don't act like he's doing any of this deliberately - because he probably isn't. Ask him what's going on... he's the only one who really knows.
OMG! The same thing happened to me. I tried to fix things but he never changed so I've come to learn that it's hard for people to change in that way but I think that you should totally talk to him about it before things get worse. Let him know that you really love him and want to fix things. Good luck.
Hmmm thats a Tuffy....i think some people are meant to be together and some arent. If i was you i'd leave the dink and find someone who'd wanna be around you. Just remember....the little things count in life. dont cut yourself short.
major confrontation is what you need to do


be blunt about everything


if he isnt down anymore then the relationship isnt running anyore
Ask him what he has been up to. If it's like he ';had'; to go then ok. But it's like to get out of the house then break up with him then.
Asks him what the hecks going on,be upfront and open about your feelings.Then decide if you wanna stay with him or say 'chow baby'.
The best thing you can do at this point is talk to him about it.
he either doesn't care for you anymore or hes cheating on you but talk to him ok?!?!
You should stop ignoring it. Confront him and check to see if there is a problem. This is the only way it will get better.
Talk to him about it.
Me and my boyfriend (1 year and 6 months) had that once all you really need to do is talk to him and dont jump to conclusions thinking that something bad is up because that will just take you to nowhere. Maybe you should just call him instead of waiting for him to call and maybe just tag along when hes with his friends once in a while.

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