Saturday, July 31, 2010

Friend problems...advice, please (sry this story is really long but i need advice)?

Okay so i guess it would be best to start at the beginning. I will refer to people as pronouns (like he, she, and I) bc i don't feel like using other names and to respect their privacy i guess even though they are making me mad. w/e moving on. lol So last school year i became friends with this girl ('she', 'her', etc.) we became really good friends and her boyfriend i only saw enough of to say 'hi' to and i did i was really nice. she said he had a learning disability (which now i'm not sure i believe bc he gets a's and b's in school, i think its just MAJOR social problems he has) okay so then he would like IM me and just be kinda creepy but i didnt think anything of it. then he asked me for my #s to give to her, buuut he never gave them to her. he started calling me. but still i was like okay this kid juts needs interaction. so then he asked me if i would go out with him if he broke up with his gf and i said no. he told me not to tell her and i did so he got mad at me and their was just madness all over the place but we all got over that and moved on, but i wasnt as nice to him but i was civilized. So this school year he was creepy in the hallway and kept saying my name every two seconds just annoying. and she said that she understands some people just dont get along. so then he started IMing my friends and saying hi to them in the hallway and they didnt like that bc they knew what i went through with him. so in the hallway my friends boyfriend goes up to the two of them and tells him to stop being such a 'stalker' (actual word he used, which didnt help, but w/e) so she got mad saying oh he has a learning disability, thats the way he makes friends. I was there, but i did not say word to anyone, i did not do anything. i was only there. so now for like the past 2-3 weeks she hasnt talked to me. i've tried to say hey and she hasnt talked to me. she blocked me on aim without me doing anything. should i confront her? (the only reason i havent yet it bc there isnt a good time for me to do so, and is it too late for me to? has too much time passed?) or just leave it alone bc i'm probably better off without her? it just pisses me off that she stopped talking to me. i didnt do anything wrong. i think her bf brainwashed her into hating me bc i don't like him. asshole.


advice would be great! (also, i'm not really the type of person to be like 'yo *****, wtf is your problem?!' lol) again sooo sorry this is ridiculously long. Friend problems...advice, please (sry this story is really long but i need advice)?
i dont think too much time has passed, maybe the 'breather' as given her time to think and actually miss yu..





so i wouldn be all ';WTF'; straight up, try to be nice :) ahaha.





i think yu'd be better off confronting er in person. cause then she has no where to hide, and yu can tell what she really thinks by her body language and shiz.





if she's still being stupid and hating on yu for no reason, then yu dont need her..Friend problems...advice, please (sry this story is really long but i need advice)?
well it seems dat she mite not want to talk about it , maybe she is kind of.. obessed with her boy.?i think you should try to start with ahi and she of she responds you kno see if she would even respond anyways good luckk with that stalker you are talking bout
Well Its Not Your Fault


Hes a creep your SO better iff without him or her !!


He will try with another girl then she will come crawling back.





If you think that you wnt to be mates then just write her a letter to say that you can still be friends even tho you dnt get on wiv him.





And i dont mind long questions :) It wasnt even that complicated to read.





Anyway sometimes you just have to go with the flow and leave so called mates to go on with there fake little lies.You just concentrate on your real friends and youll be fine.





Oh and Dont Forget ITS FRIDAY :D





Smile Be Happppyyy Sorry i am chatting bubbles arent i but im like a bitt bored





Good Luck x
Hey i think you should just try to sit your friend down and try to have a last heart to heart type talk. Tell her how you feel and that ur sorry and ask if she thinks you could be friends again. try to avoid slating her bf to her face. If she accepts and says she will make an effort then see how it goes but if it really doesnt work then just leave her for a bit, if this guys a creep then she will work it out for herself in time. Its probably best to lay off talking about him etc as it will just make him seem like a victim and drive her to him. i say try to talk to her rationally and see if u can work it out or give her some distance to realise for herself what this guy is like.

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