Boyfriend problems advice...?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He constantly talks about marrying me, and matter of fact he is flying home with me in 9 days to meet the parents...


He is a great guy and very loving and compassionate, the only problems are that sometimes I feel like his mother, nagging at him to do the simpelist things... (laundry, pick up after yourself...) Also about 4 months ago, had my first encounter catching him with Porn. That to me is the biggest, because I do trust him, but at the same time, feel betrayed and that I can't trust him in that dept. He swore up and down that he would never do it again, but I felt like a piece of crap after seeing it. It wasn't even hard core porn. He got it from Blockbuster. But I feel that while I am at work during the day he is up to no good either tv, or computer getting his jollies off someone else... I have talked to him about it since then, stating I hate bringing the past up, but I have not forgiven him...Boyfriend problems advice...?
Gurl, I have delt with the same thing for years. My husband and I just got married in May 2006. Before that we were together for 5 years. I caught him with it a couple of times and asked him not to watch it unless I was there. A couple of months later I caught him again, trying to sneak it, adn then lied about it after I had caught him. I got really mad and we had an argument. I gave his hardcore porn dvd to his uncle and asked him to keep it unti lwe got married and we would get it back. When we did get married I told him WE would watch it for stimulation during sex and he promised he wouldn't watch it without me. He gets home usually 2 hours before I do and one day a couple of months ago I found the dvd in the dvd player, he had been watching it before I got home!! I broke it into a million pieces and we haven't gotten another one, and probably wont. I felt the same way as you did, like crap. I honestly don't know what you do to get them to stop with the porn. I just thought it was what all guys did. I have always trusted my husband when he promises me things, but I feel like if we get another porn dvd he will do it again. I am so glad to see that someone else feels like I do and that I wasn't just blowing the whole thing outta proportion. But you do need to forgive and forget.