HELP...Friendship problems...Advice needed and appreciated!?

I never thought I'd do this but I'm desperate. I have a friend who I'm not talking to right now. Several months ago I asked her out %26amp; while she was touched she said she didn鈥檛 feel like that towards me. I was disappointed but we were still friends and that was honestly more important to me. Then she stopped returning my calls %26amp; e-mails. She said I was smothering her, but I tried to get in touch with her more and more when she wasn鈥檛 responding to me because I found it strange. However, it was shortly after she stopped responding that she got back with her ex-boyfriend. Does it sound like the real reason she stopped talking to me is because of her boyfriend? She also said that if this relationship were to continue she wanted to contact me as she needed a break. It has been 10 weeks of no contact - Should I still respect her wish not to contact her - I want this friendship to continue. I think the best thing to do is for us to talk face to face but she said not to call. Advice/comments?HELP...Friendship problems...Advice needed and appreciated!?
who knows.... i say just respect her wish since u r her friendHELP...Friendship problems...Advice needed and appreciated!?
well from personal experience its tough to say and respect somones wishes when you do find out yourself you care. now if she got back with her ex of course not just you but most of the people she talked to before are out of the picture. usually its the ex putting things in their head or it can be she really wants to know where shes going. regardless everyone knows if you get back with an ex its never the same. yeah things are good because you feel sorry for whatever happened but it never works out. apperently if they broke up before its for a reason and that might just be strong enough for it to happen again. it horrible feeling to miss a friend especially someone you care for but you have to find a way to be preoccupied. no communication is the best key because the more she can see how things are diffrent without you the better your own chances are. its tough to stay away but try remember life has alot of carma and you might just find what your searching for in somone else. even better if she goes looking and seeking you. regardless somehow you will see that time is the best remedy and being patient can be best. you might not even want her latter on who knows but for now gotta stay busy!
honestly respect her wish but like once a week just email her and ask how things are going... dont do it just to expect a response do it to be sincere and let her know that you are still there if she ever needs you....