Help please guy problems i need advice?

Ive been dating this guy for a year and like 4 months and we broke up a little while ago im actually taking it pretty good but i think im trying to hide how hurt i am, he keeps trying to get back with me but he lives 5 hours away and hes controlling and can be a jerk,, on the other side i kinda like this other guy but i dont no wat to do please help me thank.Help please guy problems i need advice?
if you are taking it well then move on


go out with the other guyHelp please guy problems i need advice?
Just forget about him. If hes controlling and can be a jerk then he can be abusive. Just forget about him and move on.
go with the other guy if you and your ex broke up theres a reason especially if he is a jerk and controlling you are your own person
Definitely go after the other guy, what's the point of getting the old one back when he could be a jerk?
go with the new guy and good luck
If you feel the guy who lives 5 hours away is a jerk and controlling... then you have to ask yourself... is that what you like about him? Is that what you want? On the other hand.... if you can't bear being in a long distance relationship... then it's time for a reality check. In other words, break up... (which you have already done).





And if you like this other guy and he's different and he's someone you want to know... then by all means... go for him. Good luck.
First of all, it's good you recognize your feelings and if you think you're covering them up. What I would do is sit down and have a good cry alone when no one is around, get rid of anything that reminds you of him during that time and this is to help to relieve any ';old feelings'; from your ex. This way you can feel like you're ';released';. Now it's time to stop all contact with that person. I know it's hard, but even you know he's a jerk and you two weren't mean to be.





I would also recommend to read this short book called ';He's Just Not That Into You'; by Greg Behrendt. Trust me, it's not what it sounds like and will help you make better decisions before you decide to date the new guy, if you do. My mom gave it to me and because she and I never got along too well, I took it offensively. But one day I picked it up and boom! My whole outlook on love and how relationships should be changed. It really helped me understand. Maybe the two of you could just start out platonically, explain to him you just got out of a relationship and want to see how things go...you'll do fine.
Go for the local guy. What the hell would you want with a distant jerk?
dont bother getting back with him,, you have already had a try with him i could not work again and then by then you could loose the other boy you really like,, i would leave him in the past and plus hes lives 5 hours away i dont think that the relationship could work,, focus on the other guy you really like.. GOOD LUCK :D ..x
I wouldn't get with him again, there are better guys out there, dont sell yourself short for a jerk.
Never get into another relationship soon after leaving one. Ever heard of r - e - b - o - u - u - n - d ? Keep friendships open until you are no longer hurting. As for the ex; good ridance to bad rubbish.
if hes controlling then don't go back out with him. you don't need that.nobody needs a controlling boyfriend. and if he lives 5 hours away then how often are you gonna get to see him? a relationship can not be run by just talking on the phone or on myspace. try things with the other guy, you may find he is better than your ex. what could it hurt?