Marriage problems?.Advice please...

Everybody says communication is a key factor in every marriage.In my marriage we cant communicate with my husband our communication always finishes with row.What to do ? (any suggestions please except from councling)Marriage problems?.Advice please...
there are different kinds of communication and if you are not on the same page with communication it is like talking a foreign language. With different personalities, needs, wants, and upbringing there could be many factors in communication. Get informed on the different levels of communication and identify your level and your husbands level. Then once you have identified that then communication will be easier. My husband and I found 2 really good books to help. One was a e-book and I will list the website and the other was a book called the 5 love languages. Both of these have really opened up our communication and helped us realize that communicating is often misunderstood.Marriage problems?.Advice please...
Communication is definitely the key factor in every marriage. Each partner has to communicate to effectively get good outcome in a marriage. Each partner has to think they are putting more into the marriage than the other partner to make it balance out and be more effective. For example, men are the worst at not knowing what women want. How to fix this problem? TELL HIM---since men are the worst at this, then it is key to tell him what you want. If you have an active sex life, for example, and you don't think he is doing a good enough job satisfying your needs, again---TELL HIM! Hope this helps out. Good luck.
Nobody is right all of the time. Nobody is fair all of the time. We say and do things that annoy one another and we also say and do things that hurt each other.


You cannot control husband's attitude, but you can influence him by changing your attitude.


Now this is the difficult part. Listen up and act and you will see a change in the way he responds to you.


1. Confess when you have said or done something disrespectful or hurtful to him.


2. Ask him to forgive you for your actions.


This is very, very difficult to do. It means swallowing your pride and admitting that you are imperfect. But you will gain his respect and he will respond to you in a more humble manner.
In my opinion compassion for the other person is more important than communication and even trust. Understanding the other person feelings is key. Try listening to the others key points then argue your mates side against him argueing your side. Then you will be able to understand why he/she did what he/she did or said. Good luck.
I have a similar problem in my marriage. My husband has to be right ALL the time and will not listen to anything else. Therefore, we do not communicate at all and it's driving us apart. I wish I could help you with but I'm struggling as well. good luck!
COMMUNICATING WITH HIM has to be done in a postive way or he thinks your naggin him or attacking him. never attack him personally. always say stuff like i feel i need more........................ , never say u need to do this u need to do that. a good book is the five love languages it explains alot.
Who is ';we can't communicate with my husband?'; Are you and someone else ganging up on him? Make a better attempt to explain please. We can't understand where you're coming from.





Peace.
You need to figure out a way to have your husband communicate with you better. If he will not even met you half way on trying, then why should you try to keep your marriage alive?
if he finishes your sentence tell him you were not going to say that but now he has to figure out what you really wanted even if he was right don't let him know
I must refrain, since I am a counselor. Sorry.