I have problems ? advice ? ... teenager and mom stuff.?

I'm almost always constantly getting into these arguments with my mom. Sometimes i just think i hate her ! We're always arguing about, practically everything ! Like, with my homework... she'll ask why i didn't do something and i'll try to explain to her why and she just ignores almost everything i say and believes what she wants. [i dont wanna get to detailed] ... ... anyways, sometimes i just end up cutting my hand on purpose. ( not wrists, i'm not commiting suicide). Theres other times i get so mad that i throw things around in my room and scream. Like, this one time, i threw a hair brush at the wall so hard it put a hole in it =// i know i have anger issues, but those aren't so bad anymore, as in, no more throwing things and screaming i hate my life....just like, yelling and arguing with her all the time. I WANT IT TO STOP. I've already tried explaining to her how i feel. It didn't work. ~ Any advice ? it would be much appreciated.I have problems ? advice ? ... teenager and mom stuff.?
that sounds horrible! im so sorry :O


please dont cut urself on purpose. That is DEFINITELY not the way to solve your problems.... dont be afraid to scream sometimes tho. When i get really upset i just scream and scream into my pillow and eventually i feel a lot better.


If you dont have a very good relationship with your mom, you should try to talk to her about things that you guys dont fight about. Maybe spend some time with her having fun. That way, your relationship will build and hopefully she will eventually listen to your feelings. Try not to provoke her. Be polite, thank her. She will appreciate it. Trust me





Good luck =D and just hang in there. It will all work outI have problems ? advice ? ... teenager and mom stuff.?
please dont do silly thing like cutting yourself,it is you who are in pain


not your mom,she is not afraid of her daughter in hurt,she do not feel the pain.i kow how u feel at that time to prove yourself and she just ignore .some people are like that they always liketo they are right,maniputation.queen of everything.i suggest u go to library to study than at home.try to search for good friends to talk to u .try to be independant.not tell her so much.if u have elder siblings or father,talk to them.
Just walk away. Go to your room and listen to music or read or write . . . anything that makes you feel better. If she starts to scream at you just leave before it can really get started. Maybe go to a friends house or something.


I have the same prob. just not to that extent.
omg! you poor child.. That would be aweful. Me and my mom used to not get along that great either, and honestly i wish i could tell you it got better but it didnt until i got a job,car,and a boyfriend actually made it worse. And ill never forget the day i confessed i was having sex. But the point is you see things your way and she sees things another. And me being a mom now years later,(expecting baby #2 in aug) it kinda helps me realize why we were always arguing. She was just trying to either protect you or make you see something in a adult manner. But someday it will be better i promise, just hang in there.