Major Ex-Boyfriend problems. Advice, Please.?

alright. I had a boyfriend for a year, and he broke up with me a week ago because he felt tied down and because he was bored with me. I was devastated. He said we could be friends, so we are now... But for the past week, he's been telling me perverted comments, hugging me, following me, even kissing me on the cheek... And he's been calling me babe. But when i ask him if he still liked me, he said, ';I told you i didn't. And I can't go back.'; But he is acting like we're still going out! Can someone give me their honest opinion on what he's trying to do? And what should i do with him?Major Ex-Boyfriend problems. Advice, Please.?
Avoid him like the turd he is.


He wants to be free to pursue his own interests (other girls)


while keeping you close enough to use you if nothing better comes along.Major Ex-Boyfriend problems. Advice, Please.?
I went through something similar, too. Don't let him do things like that if you've broke up. It just makes things worse. If it's over, and he can't just be friends with you, then it's over. Seems like he just wants to put up a front for other people, and maybe himself, and that's wrong. Let him know how you feel, and that if you're not really dating anymore, than both of you should just move on. It hurts too much to pretend to be something you're not.
Ignore him for a while.


Stop seeing him.


Answer the phones and stuff,act normal as if you were friends,but never call him or plan to meet him for a while.


If he wants you as a friend he will be there in a couple of weeks so no problem.


But if he still wants you as a gf,it will drive him nuts and he will come back.
You can never be friends with an ex. This guy is probably trying to get something from you, but you can not give it to him. Most guys that want to be friends after a relationship are keeping the girl at arms length just in case she is willing to give up sex. Go away from him and start your life over. He isn't worth your time.
He is playing you and that's not right. He knows how you feel and he knows how he is acting is giving you ideas.. and he doesn't care if that hurts you. What you need to do is keep away from him. If he touches you again tell him to keep his hands off of you. .better yet.. start dating and he'll get the idea. He wants you right where you are.. wanting him but him playing his games. Don't let him do this to you. You're better than he deserves by far!
It sounds to me like he just want some. either that or he physically misses you. and he thinks he can easily get it from you because he knows you still have feelings for him. But that's just the thing. You need to tell him that you guys are FRIENDS. Not friends with benefits. And if he can't respect that and is gonna sit up here and play wit yo emotions for his own benefits, then you don't want his friendship.
he wants the best of both worlds, he doesn't want to commit to you but yet he wants to have some relations with you, no strings attached. remind him that you deserve respect, the next time he talks to you like that, put him in his place. he's the one that left. so make him sorry that he did.
Leave his *** alone. He wants the benefits of having you as a girlfriend without actually being with you. Don't let him do that to you. If he can't be with you as a girlfriend then don't let him treat you like that.
girl, if i was you, dont let him do that.


just ignore him and move if he tries to kiss you.


he's toying with your emotions.


show him you know whats up and flirt with boys around him.


(:


hope i helped!


-katie.
You might have done something to piss him off really bad and now he's just trying to make you jealous.
It sounds to me like he wants to be more than friends, but you obviously aren't a priority in the commitment department. Maybe he wants to be with you, but be free to hook up with other girls and not feel guilty about it.





Maybe he's just a pig.





My opinion aside, you need to decide what to do about it, no one else. Long story short, he hurt you. It's pouring salt on the wound, acting the way he is.





My ex and I broke up, and for months we kept hooking up. Once I finally asked him ';Does this mean we're back together?'; He looked at me and literally started laughing.





One day, as I was fawning over him and a variety of other men who really weren't worth my time, Prince Charming tapped on my shoulder. We're getting married next November.





Just tell him to eff off, that you're worth more. Saying it out loud, especially to him, will mean the world to the both of you.





Cheers,


Alex
No, dump him. He wants friend with benefit. If does not like you what the hell is doing with you? Who care what he is trying do do. He is not worthy, dump him and let him know you don't need him. If you want friends you can have someone else. Tell him that you find a nice boyfriend that like you, even so is not true both that what is going to happen eventually. Remember is playing with you and your feeling and one day out the blue he is going to come with the same b.s. He probably doing the same thing with other girls. When we all stop playing the game he will have nobody to play game. Girl, you deserve better and you know it, don't let this jerk in your way. Step on his foot until he fly. (My experience) Tell him he is a big bored and you don't like him. Even if you like him, be strong don't let anybody play with you. God bless you and I hope you find someone that can kick his ball.