I HAVE BOY PROBLEMS, ADVICE PLEASE??? story inside :) it's pretty long! HELP?

Good evening from where I am :)





I've been having some boy troubles lately, and any advice or input you can give will be appreciated! In other words...I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP!!!





So I have this really weird ';relationship'; with this guy.....





We met last year (junior year) because he sat behind me in AP chemistry class. I guess we kind of hit it off and we'd talk every day, you know, like super basic flirting but kind of more talking as friends. I have this weird obsession with jelly beans, and one day he made me close my eyes and dropped off a huge bag on my desk which was soooo sweet :)





Then over Thanksgiving break, I went to LA and got him a box of really...interesting...cookies with a note in it saying ';so now we're even! ;)'; because he'd been giving me jelly beans, sometimes secretly putting them in my purse or just throwing them at me.





The thing is, through this, we never hung out outside of school. I don't know why. Probably because I'm insecure as hell and didn't want to ask him or maybe he wasn't interested? See, this is confusing! haha.





After first semester our seats got changed so we weren't next to each other anymore (he sat on my right side after we switched seats 2nd quarter) We couldn't really talk anymore since I had no other classes with him. But if I'd see him in the halls, he'd high five me or do this drum thing with his hands on my back (it was endearing, hehe). Still no hanging out.





Then 4th quarter, we got moved back next to each other. We'd still talk, but then he started going out with one of my not-that-close friends which was reaaally weird. It was kind of awkward because I was thinking...I don't want to be a homewrecker!





Over the summer, I took a math class at school and he took health. I'm pretty sure he was still going out with that girl but every day after class he'd wait with me on the bench until my ride got there. (one of my friends would be there sometimes too) I met some of his friends there and he'd tell them how obsessed I was with jelly beans and all these other little facts that I didn't even know he noticed!





Then one day, a mutual friend that was in my math class planned out this beach trip and invited a bunch of people. I went, but he stayed home, idk why. When I was there, one of his friends talked to me a lot and was just really sweet. We went out in the water alone and talked for a little bit and then laid on the beach to try and get tan. He went to go get a drink and one of my friends told me he already had a girlfriend! But didn't invite her....





The next day after class we were sitting on the bench again waiting with the guy, his friend, and one of my friends. His friend started talking about how we didn't get tan at all, and I agreed. The guy looked really surprised and asked me ';you went too? I didn't know you were going!'; and then we talked about random stuff for a while, but before I left, he said that we'd all go to beach together another time.





But after summer classes ended I had an internship in Chicago the rest of the summer and wasn't home except on July 4th, when I went to see fireworks back in my town. I saw him there and he was really excited and asked me to hang out with him and his friends that night. I said yes, but then I saw that the other people we'd be hanging out with were his maybe-girlfriend(?), the friend from the beach, and his girlfriend! I'd be the odd one out, so I said I had other stuff to do and left.





Now since 4th quarter, his facebook picture has been of him and the girl. It used to say they were in a relationship, but now it's just left blank. She hacks into his profile a lot and changes things, but in his ';About Me'; it still says she's his girlfriend.





This year, senior year, we have one class together...and guess who else is in it...the maybe-girlfriend, the friend from the beach, AND his girlfriend! Now that's just pretty messed up. His maybe-girlfriend misses class a lot, and when she does, he always sits next to meand we talk just like we did last year.





Yesterday, he brought up that he still kept the box from the LA cookies I bought him! it was just kind of random, and I was reallly surprised. We then talked about a lot of random stuff and he kept trying to make me laugh which was cute :) But today, the girl was back in class and he sat between me and her and they were all acting cute together, which is sooo CONFUSING!





WHAT IS GOING ON WITH HIM?


I don't even know what to do.....aghh.


Help please? :) :) :)I HAVE BOY PROBLEMS, ADVICE PLEASE??? story inside :) it's pretty long! HELP?
he was into you and still might be or it might just be too late. cuz anyone can do the basic flirtin **** with anyone else so it might have been a friendly flirt. just don't wait around on someone like that.I HAVE BOY PROBLEMS, ADVICE PLEASE??? story inside :) it's pretty long! HELP?
To me it sounds like he likes u but also likes her... what ever u do don't make him pick. try to become friends with this mystery girl.